If you’ve learnt something new, you’d likely give some tips about it to your friends. But, when it comes to sex, there is no tip-sharing trivia. Now there are orgasms and mind blowing orgasms! And everyone aims for the latter. We tend to think of orgasms as the end of sex. Of course, orgasms are literally referred to as the "climax" of sex. But that doesn't mean there isn't always room for improvement...So read on to blow your partner’s mind!
1.Talk the talk
It all starts with the talk! For men, they just need a little direction. Let your partner know when he’s on the right track, either by telling him what feels great or by moaning!
2.Focus on foreplay
You wouldn't run a race without warming up first, would you? For an amazing bedroom finish, it's no different. The right foreplay can make all the difference. In a research compiled by the American Sociological Review, women increased their chances of orgasm by 18 percent if they stimulated themselves by hand, or by 9 percent if they received oral sex. Don’t worry chaps, 9 percent is a lot!
3. Explore erotica
Everyone needs an inspiration! So for sex, it’s obviously porn. But, porn isn’t all about big penises and deep throats. Erotic movies and books can be tasteful and arousing, and the more aroused you are, the better your orgasm chances are!
4. Hit the hot spots
A friction position may help you have an orgasm during intercourse. Get on top, for example, so the top of your clitoris is rubbing directly on your partner’s penis. You may even want to try using a vibrator during intercourse.
5. Kegel exercise
Kegel are classic exercise for women who want a fabulous orgasm! Locate the muscles in your pelvic floor by stopping yourself from peeing midstream. Then tone them by clenching when you’re not peeing. Do kegels every day, ideally a few times a day and keep breathing while you squeeze. It’s all about squeeze and release!
6. Focus on the C-spot
One of the major reasons women have trouble reaching orgasm during intercourse is because theyaren't getting enough clitoral contact. While intercourse, just use your hands to rub the C-spot! Doggie-style and cow-girl are the perfect positions!
7. Practice solo
Your chances of climaxing with a partner will be much higher once you've already figured out how to do it by yourself. Experiment with a solo session to find out exactly what pushes you over the edge. The better you know your own body, the better your orgasms will be.
Ever heard that good things come to those who wait? When you bring yourself close to climax and then stop, you you build up a way for a bigger and more intense orgasm. It may sound absurd, but wait until you're about 90 percent of the way there and then pause, slow down, and build yourself back up. Repeat until you can't take it anymore. The eventual orgasm will be so worth the wait!
9. Snack wisely
Certain snacks, like oatmeal and peaches, can boost your sexual appetite, getting you even closer to the finish line!
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